Always
unexpected. You never guess what is coming next in your life. It’s always full
with surprises, sometimes good and sometimes shocking.
Except
life the most mysterious thing in life is human. You spent whole life to
understand someone but at the end of time when you think you understand they
show their other side.
Everyone
in the world trusts in their family blindly and can do anything for them.
But
when you trust them and they betray you trust that was the most shocking thing
because you can’t tell anyone not even you can tell what you are experiencing
and what is happening with you. At that moment you are with everyone but still
all alone. You feel too much broken, you have nobody to tell your feelings, and
nobody is there who hold your hand and tell you everything is going to be all
right. But we all know it’s very rare to find someone who listens, who cares
and who is with us in every condition, unconditionally.
Sometime
life play very cruel games with us and we cannot do anything because we did
nothing wrong. But it’s very difficult to tell others. Sometime we have fear of
losing, sometime we can’t tell them.
When
life play games we can’t do anything because it’s may be our destiny but when
someone who is very close to us and we consider them as the most caring and
loving hurt us. That was the most painful thing in anyone’s life. And the worst
condition is that we think we are responsible for that.
People
say time heals every wound but when someone hurt your soul, your self respect
then…….
Can
these wound heal by time, can you bring back some ones life in normal flow if
their soul is killed brutally by someone who is like god for them.
I
think this is the cruelest crime done by anyone. Even animals never hurt their
child can we think any human can did this to their own piece of heart? It’s
difficult to believe but we have examples all around us. Everyday we hear,
listen or watch news about killing an unborn child, parents sell their
children, family member abusing young and innocent children sexually and
mentally. We always proud humans are most developed and intelligent species of earth,
but I think we are crueler then anything, our minds are nothing but a dirty
laboratory of dirty thoughts and deeds. We always pretend to be nice but inside
some of us has a devil that destroys meaning of humanity.
I
never compare anyone who did this kind of stuff with animal because animals are
never be too selfish for their families, its only human who can play with lives
for the cost of nothing.
We
are not going upward our moral standards are going to downward with the speed
of life. Even early man worships mother earth and scared famine character. They
knew mother earth who give birth the whole humanity and the women have the
power to bring life in this world not the man. But as we know now this is a
world dominated by man and women only its dependent not it’s better half as
past. We have all rules and regulations and boundaries of do’s and don’ts only
for females. They are treated as animals in several places openly and in whole
world secretly. Most of us think women as a helpless and dependent and someone
who can’t survive without the help of MAN. But I think all man have fear of the
power of female.
But
it doesn’t mean that only men are responsible for this poor condition of women.
Women
also have equal part in this crime. We can count on our fingers the number of
females who raise their voices for the thing which happens with them. Some time
they think about others, sometime about family society and stay silent. Some
how supporting the crime. They think that’s the destiny of women and remain
silent. Some of the female pretend to be strong but inside they were not different.
We
have to support women but some times they refuse to be supported and live their
whole life with a smiling face and a paining heart. Nobody will come to wake
you up you have to write your destiny. When anything wrong happen with you do
nothing but react and raise your voice. No body is above your self respect and
soul. If you or anyone else hurting your soul and self respect and you still
thinking about the reaction of society and effect of your step on you family
then you are directly insult the god because you are the most precious and
powerful creation of god. Don’t think about the results if you are right then
god is with you forget about others. If anyone cares for you they are always
support you. Don’t fears you also have the right of living your life and if
anyone want to spoil it you have the right to do anything but never give up in
life. Remember committing crime is bad but bearing the crime silently at cost
of your life is the bigger crime. This life is precious and we have right on it
more then anyone. I recall some old lines from The Mahabharata
It
says “leave a family member for family’s happiness and benefits, leave a home
for happiness and benefit of village, leave a village for a city and leave a
city for countries’ good, leave a country for happiness of the world and leave
anything when it comes to your self-respect and soul leave the whole world for
your right because insulting your soul and self respect is direct insult of
GOD.
This
kind of articles most time written by the females. I’m a man and writing all
this is looks strange. But I have questions for all when we worship goddess why
we kill our unborn daughters, sexually abuse the young girls of family? Are
they only pieces of useless meat or we want to prove our superiority over the
one who are helpless or have respect for you? Can we imagine a life without
women?
And
the last and most important question “Can you survive in A world without
women?”
Y.Pareek
9/01/2008
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