Tuesday, September 28, 2010

the other side

Life, more mysterious then any other mystery. Too short still too much to experience,
Always unexpected. You never guess what is coming next in your life. It’s always full with surprises, sometimes good and sometimes shocking.
Except life the most mysterious thing in life is human. You spent whole life to understand someone but at the end of time when you think you understand they show their other side.
Everyone in the world trusts in their family blindly and can do anything for them.
But when you trust them and they betray you trust that was the most shocking thing because you can’t tell anyone not even you can tell what you are experiencing and what is happening with you. At that moment you are with everyone but still all alone. You feel too much broken, you have nobody to tell your feelings, and nobody is there who hold your hand and tell you everything is going to be all right. But we all know it’s very rare to find someone who listens, who cares and who is with us in every condition, unconditionally.

Sometime life play very cruel games with us and we cannot do anything because we did nothing wrong. But it’s very difficult to tell others. Sometime we have fear of losing, sometime we can’t tell them.
When life play games we can’t do anything because it’s may be our destiny but when someone who is very close to us and we consider them as the most caring and loving hurt us. That was the most painful thing in anyone’s life. And the worst condition is that we think we are responsible for that.

People say time heals every wound but when someone hurt your soul, your self respect then…….
Can these wound heal by time, can you bring back some ones life in normal flow if their soul is killed brutally by someone who is like god for them.

I think this is the cruelest crime done by anyone. Even animals never hurt their child can we think any human can did this to their own piece of heart? It’s difficult to believe but we have examples all around us. Everyday we hear, listen or watch news about killing an unborn child, parents sell their children, family member abusing young and innocent children sexually and mentally. We always proud humans are most developed and intelligent species of earth, but I think we are crueler then anything, our minds are nothing but a dirty laboratory of dirty thoughts and deeds. We always pretend to be nice but inside some of us has a devil that destroys meaning of humanity.
I never compare anyone who did this kind of stuff with animal because animals are never be too selfish for their families, its only human who can play with lives for the cost of nothing.

We are not going upward our moral standards are going to downward with the speed of life. Even early man worships mother earth and scared famine character. They knew mother earth who give birth the whole humanity and the women have the power to bring life in this world not the man. But as we know now this is a world dominated by man and women only its dependent not it’s better half as past. We have all rules and regulations and boundaries of do’s and don’ts only for females. They are treated as animals in several places openly and in whole world secretly. Most of us think women as a helpless and dependent and someone who can’t survive without the help of MAN. But I think all man have fear of the power of female.

But it doesn’t mean that only men are responsible for this poor condition of women.
Women also have equal part in this crime. We can count on our fingers the number of females who raise their voices for the thing which happens with them. Some time they think about others, sometime about family society and stay silent. Some how supporting the crime. They think that’s the destiny of women and remain silent. Some of the female pretend to be strong but inside they were not different.
We have to support women but some times they refuse to be supported and live their whole life with a smiling face and a paining heart. Nobody will come to wake you up you have to write your destiny. When anything wrong happen with you do nothing but react and raise your voice. No body is above your self respect and soul. If you or anyone else hurting your soul and self respect and you still thinking about the reaction of society and effect of your step on you family then you are directly insult the god because you are the most precious and powerful creation of god. Don’t think about the results if you are right then god is with you forget about others. If anyone cares for you they are always support you. Don’t fears you also have the right of living your life and if anyone want to spoil it you have the right to do anything but never give up in life. Remember committing crime is bad but bearing the crime silently at cost of your life is the bigger crime. This life is precious and we have right on it more then anyone. I recall some old lines from The Mahabharata
It says “leave a family member for family’s happiness and benefits, leave a home for happiness and benefit of village, leave a village for a city and leave a city for countries’ good, leave a country for happiness of the world and leave anything when it comes to your self-respect and soul leave the whole world for your right because insulting your soul and self respect is direct insult of GOD.

This kind of articles most time written by the females. I’m a man and writing all this is looks strange. But I have questions for all when we worship goddess why we kill our unborn daughters, sexually abuse the young girls of family? Are they only pieces of useless meat or we want to prove our superiority over the one who are helpless or have respect for you? Can we imagine a life without women?
And the last and most important question “Can you survive in A world without women?”

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