Emotional Manipulation ..
When we don't have courage to speak truth to our loved one we manipulate them
but in deep inside the heart We think what if The truth comes out ?
so they manipulate more and more and make things complicated
and personally i don't think if base of a relationship or a friendship is manipulation then it will not last long
sooner or later we are going to know truth and realize sometime decision taken in a hurry is not at all good decision.
another thing we are not buying a mobile or washing machine or a vehicle so we have to use or get a test drive to find is it the best
True relationships never get confused for if i settle for this person what if i got a better option later .
The most important thing for a relation no matter it is between friends or between brother and sister or with the one you love is TRUST
and these day reason behind most of the broken families and broken Relationship
we don't earn trust of other
We don't have courage to tell everything on first place instead we tell only things which are going to be good in our relation
this is good for short term but in long term as the other one know you were not true with them they hurt badly.
And the funny thing we never accept we hide anything
if they ask Why you hide all this from me?
We have a universal answer I am going to tell everything once everything settle down you know I am very tensed these days.
And it starts a whole new round of Manipulations and Blame games.
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