Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Idiot Individual Speak Again..

Emotional Manipulation ..          


                                                                                           


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When we don't have courage to speak truth to our loved one we manipulate them 
but in deep inside the heart We think what if The truth comes out ?
so they manipulate more and more and make things complicated 

and personally i don't think if base of a relationship or a friendship is manipulation then it will not last long
sooner or later we are going to know trut
h and realize sometime decision taken in a hurry is not at all good decision.
another thing we are not buying a mobile or washing machine or a vehicle so we have to use or get a test drive to find is it the best
True relationships never get confused for if i settle for this person what if i got a better option later .
The most important thing for a relation no matter it is between friends or between brother and sister or with the one you love is TRUST
 




and these day reason behind most of the broken families and broken Relationship
we don't earn trust of other
We don't have courage to tell everything on first place instead we tell only things which are going to be good in our relation
this is good for short term but in long term as the other one know you were not true with them they hurt badly.

And the funny thing we never accept we hide anything
if they ask Why you hide all this from me?
We have a universal answer I am going to tell everything once everything settle down you know I am very tensed these days.

And it starts a whole new round of Manipulations and Blame games.


SOCIETY YOU'RE CRAZY BREED INDEED

Idiot Individual Speaks-

 Why we should not Get   
Married

as an Individual I think our generation is not for marriage
sound strange but i think so
reasons

we are ok with relationships but when it comes to happily married thing we behave differently 

we have high IQ but low EQ 
for us being Emotional means being Stupid

we don't understand happiness for us happiness means movies expensive gifts trip to exotic places and all the materialistic things

and the most important reasons are
We are confused we don't know what we want in life

and we only take decisions in just two conditions first in when we are too happy and second when we are angry disturbed

We make ourselves vulnerable and give others chance to hurt or use us

we pretend we are strong enough to face anything but we are the one who broke in smallest of problems

and while searching for a life partner i imagine too much and then.....

and as they say Marriages are made in Heaven then How can the Generation who belongs from Hell can be HAPPILY MARRIED

the generation who find Happiness in Ipad Ipod Iphone and I is Generation of Idiots